Throw Away The Calendar
Two years sounded right to us, and it wasn't. But five was. My mom would probably be proud of this post. I met my very special guy in June 2009. Almost right away, there was a special connection. We knew we wanted to be together, and since we met at a church in a new chapter in both of our lives, we were convinced God had willed it. Well, actually, at that time in our lives, we didn't think too hard about God's will. We got together a mere 3 days after meeting, and were inseparable ever since. Well…... almost. After just a few months together, we were head over heels. We were in that "honeymoon phase" and we were a bit naive. We thought we were ready to tackle marriage. Little did we know, we were not. There were rough seas ahead, for both of us. Growing up and finding a real job for me, PTSD recovery for him. So we put the idea of getting married on the shelf. We didn't set a date. We didn't talk about details like dresses an...